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Tell North Carolina to Overturn Decision Legalizing Rape, Additional Resources

September 29, 2010
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Immediate, please sign:
Tell North Caronlina to Overturn Decision Legalizing Rape

Targeting: The Governor of NC, The NC State Senate, and The NC State House

Started by: Change.org

Under a 1979 Supreme Court decision, once someone has agreed to start having sex, at no time during that act of intercourse can she withdraw consent. She relinquishes the right to control her own body.

If her partner has to physically restrain her, causing injuries, to keep her from stopping the act? Nope, not rape.

In effect, this decision has legalized rape.

This disturbing policy came to light after a case in which a young woman was dropped under the argument that she’d been okay with having sex at first. The victim’s father is now asking legislators to make certain that other girls are not faced with the same denial of legal redress for what is certainly rape.

Help protect future women by asking North Carolina state legislators to pass legislation clarifying that rape occurs in any non-consensual situation, even if it happens after intercourse has started.

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North Carolina: Consent to Sex Cannot Be Withdrawn

From The Curvature by Cara

Trigger Warning for rape apologism, specifically within a legal context, and descriptions of rape.

Today I came across a story about rape charges being dropped against a high school student and star football player in Charlotte, NC. Stories about rape charges being dropped always interest me, not because the reasons for dropping charges are always nefarious, but because they too frequently are (especially when a popular athlete is involved). And even more commonly, the expressed reason for a decision to not prosecute tells us an awful lot about social and legal attitudes towards women and other marginalized social groups, sex, consent, and rape.

…if intercourse begins consensually, “no rape has occurred though the victim later withdraws consent during the same act of intercourse.”

As usual, trying to discover the reason why charges were dropped required a bit more work than it should have. Some reports simply stated that the district attorney had found the sexual contact to be consensual — an utterly jaw-dropping claim for a DA to make when the accuser has not recanted. Such a claim strikes me as downright irresponsible and rape apologist — insufficient evidence that a rape was committed is not the same as evidence that consensual sex did occur. When an accuser still maintains that she was raped, it’s downright despicable to, without explanation, give a defense attorney license and ammunition to say this:

Sombo’s Attorney Brad Smith said he found out about the charges being dropped late Tuesday afternoon.  “The case is done, the D-A said they found insufficient evidence.  It was consensual all along.  He’s been vindicated, like we knew he would all along.”

So with the absence of a recantation, what possible reason could the district attorney have had for declaring the alleged sex consensual? The Charlotte Observer provided the nauseating insight:

The dismissal documents said the young woman and Sombo were dating at the time of the incident and that she wanted to limit their contact to kissing. The couple then agreed to “heavy petting.” The papers said intercourse began consensually, but she then told him to stop.

According to the dismissal document, a 1979 N.C. Supreme Court ruling called State v. Way says that if intercourse begins consensually, “no rape has occurred though the victim later withdraws consent during the same act of intercourse.”

The fact that this is true makes me feel sick to my stomach. And the fact that I did not know it to be true makes me feel painfully naive. But I imagine that I am far from the only one who remained so ignorant.

Indeed, further research indicates that North Carolina is hardly alone in its outdated, misogynistic definitions of consent and sexual assault:

As of 2003, only eight states have determined in one way or another that a woman’s withdrawal of consent during sex requires the man to stop, lest he be qualified as a rapist. Maine was the first state to issue such a decision; in 1984, the Maine Supreme Court decided that “a rape occurred because of the defendant’s use of forcible compulsion to make the victim submit to continued intercourse after she withdrew consent,” in the appealed case of Gordon Robinson III (Lyon, 2004). Similar decisions were then handed down by Connecticut, South Dakota, Minnesota, Alaska, California, and Kansas – all in response to an appeal or trial (ibid.). Illinois is the only state that has changed its statute outright to define continued penetration after withdrawal of consent as rape. Called the “No Means No” Act, it read: “a person who initially consents to a sexual penetration or sexual conduct that occurs after he or she withdraws consent during the course of that sexual penetration or sexual conduct,” (ibid.) It was introduced into the Illinois State House of Representatives, and was signed into law in July, 2003 (ibid.)

The cited article by Lyon is available here (though, trigger warning). Since 2003, at least one state, Maryland, has joined the above eight states in their explicit recognition that a person has a right to control hir body and to restrict access to it, no matter what stage of sexual intimacy one might currently be engaged in. Other states, apparently, at least unofficially work under the rule that once consent to a certain sexual activity has been given, a person’s body thereby become property of hir sexual partner. And, of course, the people whose bodies usually become legally no longer their own just so happen to be the bodies of women.

This standard of consent is misogynistic on its face — women are the majority of rape victims, and bring the vast majority of rape cases. Deciding that consent cannot be withdrawn once it has been given is primarily deciding that women give up all rights to their bodies by agreeing to sex. This understanding of consent reflects and reveals outdated and sexist notions of sex between men and women as being about possession and control for men and relinquishment and surrender for women. Sex is not seen as a collaborative process between two (or more) actively involved individuals of any genders, a generally pleasurable negotiation where the enjoyment and best interests of all parties is not a benefit but a goal, but rather a power struggle strictly between men and women, where a woman “loses” by agreeing to participation and can never again retract that victory from the man once it has been “won.”

Sex is a battle, and bodies are commodities. And as it has been for centuries of kyriarchy, ownership of women’s bodies is obtained through penetration, and that ownership cannot be revoked. For the state of North Carolina, sexual contact makes women non-human. If they were ever even people to begin with.

The accuser’s father has expressed plans to contact legislators in an attempt to ensure that they prevent a repeat of what happened to his daughter. But while I wish him all the support and success in the world, the fact that one does not have the right to withdraw sexual consent once it has been given in North Carolina is astonishingly not the only deeply disturbing thing about this case. The question of how the DA determined that this rule even applied to this case also currently remains unanswered. Because the alleged victim maintains that no consent to intercourse was ever given at all:

The young woman involved in the case told the Observer in a phone interview that she never consented to have sex and, once it started, told Sombo repeatedly to stop.

“He wouldn’t listen and he didn’t stop,” she said, speaking on condition of anonymity.

She said she suffered physical injuries and has been going to counseling. She said she wants to stay at Butler but worries about the threats she’s received by phone and online from social media websites.

How, exactly, as it determined that charges ought to be dropped on the basis that rape cannot be committed in the eyes of state law once consent has been granted, when the allegations involve no consent having been granted at all? Who decided, and how was it decided, that consent was given and then revoked? Was this the accuser’s defense? If so, why was his story taken at face value? Was it a part of the accuser’s initial complaint? If so, why were further clarifications not taken into account?

Sex is not seen as a collaborative process between two (or more) actively involved individuals of any genders, a generally pleasurable negotiation where the enjoyment and best interests of all parties is not a benefit but a goal, but rather a power struggle strictly between men and women, where a woman “loses” by agreeing to participation and can never again retract that victory from the man once it has been “won.”

Presumably the dismissal documents themselves might shed some light on the decision, but I was unable to find them online (let me know if you have better luck!). No matter which way you look at it, though, the North Carolina legal system is utterly steeped in rape apologism and misogyny. At this point, it’s really just a question of extent.

One person is raped every 1.3 minutes.  How many victims in the time it took to read this article? To get help reporting sexual assault, call 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or visit www.RAINN.org



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